Seize the Day♫

提醒：

就事論事。

即便處理事情的對方，不是討人喜歡的傢伙，也應該放下心中的成見，就事論事，讓事情完滿的解決。

不要流於情緒化了。

愛多麼珍貴 才讓人陶醉
多年後往往才發覺 才了解
愛應該很美 愛不該頹廢
也許我們都要感謝 愛過誰

作詞：陳天佑
作曲：李偉菘
演唱：黃小琥

跟自已聊天 成了種習慣
吃一頓晚餐 配一份孤單
有一些曖昧 疲累也無味
那感情放又收輪迴 該終結

不是非要有人陪 不小心相信那個誰
最怕說單身無畏 是怕被傷害的膽怯 才讓人一直受罪

只是想要有人陪 再瘋狂還能有幾回
寧缺勿濫無所謂 讓寂寞投降能有誰

愛多麼珍貴 才讓人陶醉
多年後往往才發覺 才了解

不是非要有人陪 不小心相信那個誰
無心陪伴的傀儡 也不需要陪在身邊 多讓人心酸一遍

只是想要有人陪 說起來有一點可悲
畢竟對的就去追 讓未來生活多個誰

愛應該很美 愛不該頹廢
也許我們都要感謝 愛過誰

It's already March, a quarter of a year has been passing by, and I've run my school days about 2 weeks. Nothing particular can share.

Finallly I made up my mind to take 22(out of 25) credits for this semester because I want more personal time to study on my own, and breath. Sometimes I'd rather read and study by myself and discuss more with my classmates than just sit down in a class room, listening to teachers. I need more time to think over theories, chewing the essential of them.(gosh, there're too many interpretations for each law subject)

I like to absorb numerous kinds of information and knowledge from newspaper and websites articles; however recently I found that I just read as much as I can, many input, but less output. I do run them through my head, and of course something does trigger my inspiration, but I didn't speak(write) them out so it's kind of like I haven't learned something, eh?(no wonder sometimes I feel I'm going rotten...)  I am nothing but an ordinary observer.=(  So, I'll try my best to give feedback to something meaningful I've seen/ read.

Schedule, schedule.....It's going to be a tough and tight month. Jia you!

This is amazing.

French is so beautiful.

Cause the only real pain a heart can ever know
Is the sorrow of regret
When you don't let your feelings show

If you love somebody
You better let it out
Don't hold it back
While you're trying to figure it out
Don't be timid
Don't be afraid to hurt
Run toward the flame
Run toward the fire
Hold on for all your worth
Cause the only real pain a heart can ever know
Is the sorrow of regret
When you don't let your feelings show

[Chorus]
So did you say it
Did you mean it
Did you lay it on the line
Did you make it count
Did you look 'em in the eye
Did they feel it
Did you say it in time
Did you say it out loud
'cause if you did hun
Then you lived some
That feeling inside
That's called satisfied

Busy people walking by
Can't help but worry some
With so many things to do
So little love gets done
Empty hearts everywhere
Drowning but dying of thirst
If you want love
It's not that tough
Start by giving it first
It's so easy to give
Baby can't you see
Just close your eyes open your heart
And do what comes naturally

[Chorus]
Well did you say it
Did you mean it
Did you lay it on the line
Did you make it count
Did you look 'em in the eye
Did they feel it
Did you say it in time
Did you say it out loud
'cause if you did hun
Then you lived some
That feeling inside
That's called satisfied

[Bridge]
Horses are built to run
The sun is meant to shine above
Flowers are made to bloom
And then there's us
We were born to love

[Repeat Chorus] 

originally uploaded by: FarTripper

1.開學第一件事就是確認上課的時間和地點，然後帶著快樂的心情，專注的精神，跟許久不見的老師、同學見面、上課去。:)

2.今天早上先帶領這學期的大陸交換生們到學校參加報到說明會；很幸運這次和有經驗的義工們一起接待交換生，感恩。也很開心認識幾位來自大陸的高材生們；原來我們有許多相同之處；初步的互動令人興奮，還請多多指教吶。

3.素昧平生的人們之間的第一次見面、第一印象是重要的，好的開始是成功的一半，就像學習新的事物一樣，帶著開闊的心情去摸索，盡量保持學習的衝勁，莫忘初衷。

4.前幾天的新聞報導，其中，企業留才應著重3大拉力：工作環境，薪資，工作內容，工作環境讓人心情愉悅是上班族不捨得離開的原因；我承認，因為我好喜歡跟梁媽逸恩大哥姐組長說話了XD。開學第一天，交流了不少有趣的故事和笑話。

5.每天都給自己一點小小的目標，寫張list做規劃，事半功倍!

6.微笑是最好的語言，嘴角上揚，心情飛揚!

7.新學期，加油。

我坐在公車上雙人座靠窗的位置，

途中停站時，看到一對母女(女兒大概是高中生的年紀)，

女兒先上車坐在單人座上，媽媽比較慢上車，

當時車上已經沒有太多的座位，有點擁擠，

不過大家都很客氣地互相讓位，

只聽見那位媽媽說：「你們坐，你們坐，沒關係的。」

然後那位媽媽倚坐在她女兒旁邊，帶著一點點微笑，

「反正路程不遠，我和我女兒同坐一起就好。」

「難得可以和女兒靠的這麼近，她(們)平常都好忙，不知道在忙什麼。」

大約20分鐘的路程之後她們下車了。

xxx

好久沒有和媽媽抱抱或是一起聊聊天了，平常在學校也不是每天都打電話回家

父母無法永遠陪伴在我們身邊，要把握時間多陪陪家人。

今天晚上，抱著姑且聽之以及輕鬆的心情，參加了一場在學校理學院說明會(Toastmasters)，是關於英語演講訓練。

因為時間和地點的因素，並沒有抱著多大的希望，不過還是很想找到一個能夠訓練英文聽講的方式，畢竟台灣的英語教育竟然無法讓我們將英語會話經常地應用在日常生活當中，真的有點可惜。

現場有許多大叔大姐們，氣氛融洽，聽他們在對談好像大家的心情都極好，都擁有開朗的人格特質...；

主持人開場介紹時突然說出"共同的信仰"5個字，讓我直接聯想該不會又是基督教吧，此時我腦袋裡已經浮現以前參加過團契的畫面- -'，

我沒有排斥或偏好任何宗教，只是以前剛好參加過教會的活動，而我心中的感覺是: 天阿! 大家好樂觀開朗喔! & 一切榮耀歸主!  (這是題外話)

今天說明會的內容，大概示範了這個club的進行方式，很佩服英文即使說的不是很標準、流利的人，還能夠勇敢的站在台上，不看講稿，搭配事先準備好的PPT，用誇張的(是真的)肢體語言來演說，真的是開了眼界。想想我上一次公開在大家面前演講在什麼時候了?  大概3、4年前了(@@我老了..)。

其中扮演重要腳色的grammarian的conductor表現令人印象深刻，負責指導英文文法、發音等等，有好多地方自己本來覺得都很順，但是其實有誤用或不完美的文法，通通都被評點出來，要當grammarian的conductor還真的得有堅強的英文底子和兩把刷子，受教了。

如果順利的話，學校會成立一個club但是創團費不低(依美金算)，到時候再來煩惱要不要入會或旁聽好了。有興趣的去看看吧!

"Life is not all beer and skittles."

As Trilby says in the book by George Du Maurier that bears her name: ' Well, I've got to go back to work. Life ain't all beer and skittles, and more's the pity; but what's the odds, so long as you're happy? '

Life is not all fun and games. We have our pleasant times, but we have our serious ones, too.

However, nobody can (or has a right to) make me unhappy, only me, myself. It's a matter of self minded and what I choose. There's a quote said " I choose to be happy and choose not to let other people affect my mood. " It needs practice time after time though.

When people have a quarrel, usually they make noisy sound or yell at each other as if they are afraid other people won't realize they are quarreling, and it becomes louder and violent. Moreover, I often see some of them cried out loud.  Those who cried first may be the loser-to-be(in my observation). Don't cry...!

In this case, I prefer to speak out what stucks in my mind rather than to be silent. Of course it should be in a gentle way.